Here's the thing that gets me.
It's a joke, right? This writer has a fetish. This artist has a fetish. This videogame crew has a fetish. Haha, look at the pattern!
But like. Accusing someone of having a fetish is actually kind of... in the same vein as sexual harassment.
Like, even if the work in question is deeply sexual, you are making it deeply weird, because you are making it about a real person.
You have moved on from analyzing the text and playing in the realm of fiction and are now actively speculating about the sexual preferences of a real, living human being whom you do not know at all.
And that's actually really fucking creepy.
Like, haha, it's a joke, it's not that deep! But like... you know, that's just how most people react to being called out about rape culture, you know?
It's weird, man.